“Never blame anyone in your life. Good people give you happiness. Bad people give you experience. The worst people give you a lesson. The best people give you memories” – Life
Have you ever been in a toxic situation? One, which leave you feeling enslaved and powerless!!!
Like all my posts on my blog, today’s post is inspired by life’s events. It’s no doubt, toxic situations drain the life out of you. My intent is to motivate, inspire, empower and educate you with my words.
Here goes…..
You know, I always question, “How can someone go through life, continuously inflicting pain on another?” Mentally, physically or emotionally.
I often question their motives.
I often question there rewards.
Hummmm… It’s not for me to question though, but I’m curious.
THE UNSPOKEN ANGER…
I cry, I laugh. I cry and laugh.
I cry because, I’m in pain!!! Pain you’ve inflicted.
I laugh…..don’t know why. Definitely know it’s not funny.
I’m all out of energy. I’m hurting.
My face now frowns. Fighting to not wear my emotions. I’m now bleeding inside for I have no more tears left.
Wow, what a melancholic case.
Through experience I know words hurt. But, oh Lord, if only I can say how I feel. Speak out but my words are cutting. So I vent, vent to myself.
I scream, I cry, I even curse.
I sit, I watch, I listen, I feel. I bear it all. For your actions are contemplated.
You’ve constituted “Mens Rea” in its entirety.
Mens Rea is a term used in law which refers to the accused state of mind in causing the event. It includes knowledge, intention, recklessness and gross negligence
How do you plead? Guilty for sure.
How do you feel?
I repeatedly ask, how do you feel, when you continuously, repeatedly do the same things knowing your negative actions affect others in a negative way.
How do you feel?
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Now what?… Now look!!!!!
Enough of “enough is enough”
You’ve destroyed something. You’ve destroyed a relationship, a relationship once built on trust and love. To the point, to the point of no return.
How do you feel?
But I see you…..
Yes you, I see you get real mad when you’re being ignored. No no, not mad. More like enraged. I see you though.
MY ASSAILANT, HAVE YOU EVER TAKEN TIME TO IMAGINE HOW I FELT
I deserve to smile. You (my readers) deserve to smile.
Sometimes you allow a toxic situation to brainwash you, cripple your mobility. You tend to stay until the next deed is done. “I know it all to well”
Never you worry or question the workers of iniquity, for their time is coming to an end. Answerable, not to you my Luv.
Enough is enough
In conclusion, when someone shows their true colors, believe them.
When God shows you their true colors!!! Say, “Thank you, lesson/s learnt”. “Immediately take heed” and make forward movements.
Walking away from a toxic relationship
No toxic situation is worth sacrificing your wellbeing, peace, happiness or sanity. Know your self worth and own it. Let no material things, hold you bondage. As humans, it’s sometimes easy to say next time, when in all actuality, every event is the next time.
If you or someone you know is going through a toxic situation, be your neighbor’s keeper and share this.
Remember, now is your time for freedom. Now is your time to leave. Regain your freedom. Own your life.
Enough of, enough is enough.
To everyone, I pray you find peace, strength and courage to reclaim your life and remove yourself from any toxic elements. Keep safe and God bless.
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With Luv
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Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted
Matthew 5:4
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“Folks only treat you how you let them.” The minute I grasped that phrase, I began to govern myself accordingly. Life is too short to allow toxic people to drain you.
Indeed. Thanks much for stopping by.
People definitely allow toxic relationships more than they should. You gave some really good insight and advice here. Loved it!
Greatly appreciated. Thanks much for stopping by.
Toxic relationships are draining. Whether it be family, friend, or significant other. Although easier said than done we must look at the signs and react. Great post.
Indeed, thank much for stopping by.
great post, toxic relationships would always bring you down, It important to identify if and run away as far as you can
Thanks much for stopping by and reading. No toxic situation is worth sacrificing your well-being.
Toxic people are so good at manipulating every little thing to their liking while making you feel that it’s your fault. It is a shame that we are not taught about these people before we get enmeshed in their nasty games..
Amen to that. Thank much for stopping by.
This is always so hard.. I love the scripture at the end
Briana
Greatly appreciated. Thanks for stopping by Luv.
I say this to persons every-time. Once you realize that the relationship is going in that direction, run for the hills. Do not stop, do not slow down, just go.
Though each situation may be different, oh yessssss indeed, it’s not worth the pain. Thanks much for stopping by.